First and foremost, I am thanking all my visitors for keeping this blog alive with your visits. Let me also take this oppurtunity (while I can) to voice out here my earnest apology to all my daily visitors and entrecard droppers for not corresponding your visits and drops for almost a week now. There were something more important to take care of than taking care of my blogs within that period of times.
I was multi-tasking. I was trying to fix our “now a broken home”. It was sad knowing that our mother left home, left dad and us. It was sadder knowing that we, the children were not able to do something to stop her. There are lots of rumors spreading the town that our mother left with her lover which we are trying not to believe. It may be true or it may be not but I, along with siblings say that we will only believe that rumors when we see it before our very eyes.
A broken home is actually not new to us, their children. It happened once way back in my younger days but it was dad who left home. I mean no, mom pushed dad to get out of the house. I didn’t know what the problem was back then; I didn’t fully understand what their fight was all about due to young age. Not used of having no father around the house, we, the children made a move for them to get back to each other. We succeed but this time, no. We do not even know where our mom is at right now.
Aside from getting busy with that problem, I was also trying to get an EON account in Union Bank in Iligan City because unfortunately, EON card is not available here in Dipolog. So, I went to Iligan last Sunday with my father. He insisted to travel with me to visit his brother in Iligan City as well. I was thinking that maybe he just wanted to get himself off from thinking about our mother. He just wanted to get away from our home to be able to quit thinking about that sad thing for a moment. Deep inside I know he is hurting and it hurt us more when he is trying to show his fake smile to us.
We came back home Monday night from Iligan. My father had a fever when we get home maybe because of the long hours of trip. Plus, he was suffering from Arthritis on our way to Iligan yet he didn’t tell me. So far, he is ok now under my care. He is here with us (hubby and I) right now and will stay here until he is fully recovered from Arthritis.
Still, up to this point of time, my mind is pretty full of thinking with what’s going on with our home, my card and my father being sick. This is exactly what life is and I am glad I am that strong for my father’s and siblings’ sake for I am their source of strength and light for now. I thank my hubby for always being here for me too giving me unfailing support. And of course, I thank God for being my only source of strength. Whatever He has in store for us, for our family, it is all in His hands and everything will go through according to His will.
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Sorry to hear about your mom chie, i hope and pray that your family problem will get fix. just don't lost hope sis, there is two side of the story so, whatever thereason why your mom left, i hope she'll come back and explain to you guys her side. I hope your dad will feel better soon as well. takecare
I understand what you goin through sis.. I know its very hard in your part. But dont give up my dear sister. Be strong for you father and younger siblings.. Just have faith and lift all your trials to the one above and I assure you everything will be alright. I've been through in a very hard situation even until now.. only my faith and prayers lift me up.. kaya mo yan sis...Cry to our God. Your so lucky to have your hubby in your side... Be strong.. kaya mo yan..
oh sorry to hear that Chie..ok lang kung di ka maka online. i am sure others will understand you also. I just hope na okay lang imong mother since wa ra ba mo kabalo kung asa miadto... mamindot lang japon mi diri sa imoha para masudlan imo EON card..hehe
oi.. halah ka sis noh.. I hope all will be well as soon as possible sis.. I will pray for that. And yeah problem is our twin, that's life. And good that you are strong. Keep stronger sis! hugs!
Sad to hear that chie. It's really hard to see your family breaking apart.I'll pray that God will continue to give you strength to fix your family problems. To be strong for your father and siblings. Looking forward that soon everything will be okay.God bless..
I am sorry to hear about your Mom leaving you guys. I don't kno how it feels, so I just say that everything will be fixed and that your Mom will come back soon.
Take care and pls know that we are praying for you and your family!
hope things will be fine with you and your family, chie.. you are faithful, so God will send you comfort..
Sorry to hear about it. I hope all problem can solve soon.
sorry to hear about this... may God bring u comfort now....
Sorry to hear about your family problem. This is life... remember that God won't give you a problem that you can't handle.
Keep the faith... and be thankful for despite all the family problems your hubby is always there to support you....
my gosh sis...worried ko kay you mentioned weeks ago na you are busy trying to fix some problems...mao diay ni imo problem...so sorry to know about what happen...am sure you are strong enough to face this trial....wala diay mo kabalo hangtod ron kung asa imo mama sis...I hope the rumor is not true....maybe she wants some time alone.....au-au diha...mwah! I miss you!
whewww...you can go through for this...just pray and calm down , think million times on every moves you need to do and I'm sure 100% you will succed what your aiming for. God will not give any trias that you cannot solve it so..he knows you can make it soon ...believe me...
The more you become tougher through this obtacles of life....talagang ganayan ang buhay ...the more challenge the more you win the games.
take care and don;t forget your self too.
sorry to hear about it sis. I will pray na maayos na ang iyong problems..be strong sis. thanks for being open to us.
Hi Chie, sorry to know about your family problem, hope it will be resolved soon. hope also your father will be Ok and you and siblings as well. Take care always...
Sis chie,
U know i really felt what you feel. This is not easy situation between you and your family.
Kabalo ka sis, sus affected man jud ta nga mga anak. Atong parents wala sila kabalo how sad sa mga anak if dili magka-ayos ang mga parents.
Maka relate jud ko aning nahitabo nimo karon sis. Before ana sad ako family, since eldest ko ako ang pinaka affected sa tanan. Trying to keep family intact. Kaso Baliktad lang ta, pabor ko ni mama not kay papa...
Kaya sis chie, kaya mo yan pray and pray lang. Karon that your dad is sick tell him that everything will be alright in time.
kablo ka everything happens for a reason. Hold on sis chie...be strong. tcare.
Thank you so much my blogging sisters for all your kind and uplifting words...it help a lot to make me calm and think that this is happening for a reason...
Thank you all for being here with me...i do appreciate every words you have written here...mwahhh i love you all
hello Chuchie. i am glad to know that you are strong enough to handle every situation there is. with your husband's support, you can do it 'chie!
my mom and dad separated years ago and for me, the experience was one of the most painful ones ever. years had passed and yet i still feel the pain. my parents are now friends and are in good terms. still, for us kids, it's still difficult to have our parents living away from each other.
i hope whatever might be your mom's reason for leaving her kids and your dad is good enough for everyone to understand. i hope that your dad will be able to cope up with what has happened as soon as possible and that he gets well soon, too.
take care chie.
Hello sis visita ko here.. I felt sad for what happened to your family. I know kaya mo yan sis, just always remember that God is just behind you always.
I hope your family problem will be resolved soon. Take care sis and pindot japon ko for u sa walang sawa.
hi chie, sorry to hear about it! taga dipolog ka? naa ra diay dha imong husband dear? cge ba mo adto sa dakak? naa unta ko questions...
stay strong my friend!
kabalo ka sis..I can relate to what you are going through..I also came from a broken broken family..hahaha..double broken jud noh..I know its hard but during times like this it is best that you and your siblings hold on to each other and of course ask for guidance from the One above.
That is just awful. I guess it wasn't meant to be. I wish you and your family the best.
Chie, I'm sorry that I'm just now reading this, and not replying to it until now. There's no need to apologize to your friends for something FAR more important going on off the internet.
I have to say that I'm proud of you as friend for stepping up, and handling this the way you are and helping your dad out.
Best wishes, and your friends will still be here for you.