During the first two years of marriage, we are like geckos who are sticking with each other wherever we go. We are like tied or chained to each that we cannot go anywhere without each other. Even when only going to a convenient store, shopping groceries, buying coke in the bakeshop few steps away from the house, we are together. He just didn’t like going out the house without me and I didn’t like going out the house without him either. That’s how overacting we were.
But after two years of marriage, to date, I can leave the house and go visit my parents in my hometown alone. With his permission of course and a promise that I will be a good girl. He is now allowing me to hang out with my high school batch mates and friends; the only people he allows me to hang out with because he knows them already. When it comes to me hanging out at the bar to party, even when I am with my high school friends, it is a big NO to him. For him, that’s the thing that we should go together and party together, which is very fine with me.
When I am at my parents, I would just call him, or he would just call me to check each other if we are doing ok. Calling him the moment I arrive at my hometown is a must so he knows I am ok. While him, being left alone in the house, most of his time is on the Internet playing his online games. His games can make him occupied and busy until night time.One day is not enough to play all his games, actually. When he is bored, he would just watch TV, feed the dog, and cook his food or he’ll simply take out foods from the restaurant near the house and go back home and eat. That all he does when alone. Oh no, he does not touch any chores, he'll wait for me to do it when I get back. What is that? A punishment for me for leaving him alone. Hmpp!? I still love him though. I know my husband is a good boy and he knows I am good girl, so there is trust.
Well yes, gone are our geckos’ days. We are now used of doing some, just some of our own thing alone but it doesn’t mean that our magic is gone. It is still there and we are trying each and every day to keep that magic. Have a great day everyone!
your gecko's days only good for 2 years? hehehehe! ganon naman eh, sa umpisa siyempre laging magkatabi at laging magkasama, but, you also need space, need to go out with friends once in a while. Trust is very important and lahat tayo eh dapat kahit paano may panahon para sa mga sarili natin. Pareho si Gary at si Rodney, pwede akong sumama sa mga friends ko, sa araw, wag lang sa bar. that's also a big NO.
Thanks for joining this week..
awwwww...sweeet! hahhaa...mura jud ug tuko sis no? lol! we have been married for almost 6 years...pero we still act like geckos...once in awhile I go shopping by myself...it feels great to be alone sometimes...ehehhehe!
I wish I have my high school and college friends live close by....thanks for sharing the pics sis...bibo kau mo!
sensya na tuod ha karon lang ko nakabalik ug blog hop...busy man jud kau akong life...ehehhee!
thanks sa dalaw ug comments...mwah!
hi sis! wow geckos tlga...pag geckos ang iniisip ko iba ang tumatakbo sa isip ko eheheh =)
nweis buti nga kayu gnun...dati gnun dn kme...kaso iba n sya ngyun eh...kaya n nya lumakad ng wala ako...dati gusto nya ko lagi ksama....gnn ata tlga...kasi nde nmn laging pede isama ang babae sa lakad ng mga boys =(
nami miss ko nga yun sa knya eh kaso gnun tlga...the only thing constant in this work is change =)
ehehheeh nweis...nice pics ahhaaha =))
I guess that's how a relationship should really go. A manifestation of trust.
Happy Day!
naku ganyang-ganyan din kami noong umpisa, kaya nga naglayas ako ng ilang oras dahil namiss ko, ehehe. same here, pwede akong lumabas with friends wag lang sa bar at masyadong gabi.
hehehe i can only go out with my friends that he knows or with his cousins...
gusto ko sana magkasama kami lagi kaso nde sya nakakasabay sa mga gusto ko...magkaiba kasi kami ng hilig...
good that the magic remains to be there...Happy CC Sis:)
nalingaw ko sis sa IN and Out hahaha... muot ko oi ka sweet sad diay ningyong duha... bisan asa tua...kuyog baboy... waaaaaaaa...
pero now malaya kana waaa...kanta! I mean pede na with friends heheh... akong bana ok man ni unta kaso wala lang ko friends ari an dire mao tali ok sa iyaha whoaaaaaaaa....hehe!
The Gecko days are gone. That is funny. You do need to have time with your family and friends. As for the Bar, I agree that is a NO NO.
si hubby ,ganun din ,okay lang lumabas ako at mag enjoy with friend kahit nung wala pa mga bata pero now na may mga anak na kmai .sinasama ko sial palagi with me.di kasi pala labas ng bahay si hubby.
kanindot sa mga posings oi.. bivo kaau mo sis.. mora jud og tuko^ dah.. nah ako pod dli pwede mouli nga ako rah.. uban jud kono xa.. lol.. dli pod ko kaad2 og layo nga wla xa ky minyo na daw ko, nya akong oban ky couple mn gud.. nya mawili unya daw.. mangita og partner.. lol.. which is reasonable.. thanks for sharing sis.. it's great watching! :)
Hay kami gecko days pa rin until now. We really don't wanna do thing without each of us lol.
My Couple's Corner
Girl sometimes we need to do things our own so we can still say ay ako pa rin pala ako, yung tipong ganun and I saluted your husband to free you at times.
ang sweet sweet naman!!! pero di ko knows ang geckos... hahaha!!! di ako makarelate... at least dba pinapayagan ka din nya sometimes... nakkasalak din kase dba minsan pag lagi nalang bawal? si hubby ko maluwag sakin... pero yung radar nya, laging on alert everytime lalaabs ako... hahaha!!! kaya pag may ginawa akong kalokohan, huli agad! haay...