I agree that there is no perfect marriage. Hubby and I do quarrel too over huge and minor things. Our worst fights always fall on our past mistake which is not healthy but so far, in every worst fight we had, it’s all always me who think it’s over. Just like yesterday, I thought our relationship was over because he didn’t contact me nor replied my email messages for three consecutive days. Of course being a wife, I wonder why. Freaky thoughts then raging in attacking my thinking making me type a message to him saying “what is this, are we over?”
Two hours after lunch yesterday, I finally received a message from him explaining why. And the reason is very far from what I was thinking. Sometimes, I really think too much. But for me, it was understandable to think something like our marriage is over because I haven’t heard from him for three days. For me it is freaking long. I am his wife and I have all the right to know what’s going on with him everyday. Well at least he accepted his mistake and I learned a lesson: to listen to an explanation first before concluding.
Now we are okay and had a great chat on YM.
Ai uu nga sis, sometimes kasi it's hard for us girls esp. if long distance. Ako ganyan di mag react very impulsive, but good thing you settled it! :)
my entry here
http://alwaysfilipina.blogspot.com/2011/03/never-in-my-wildest-thoughts.html
thats true...never let your mind ruined your relationship...it really helps to hear your partner's explanation first...cos' sometimes you may also be wrong of your thoughts...its just a perception, you need to trust each other more to have a long lasting relationship..
here's my entry
http://kc2009.blogspot.com/2011/03/how-do-i-live-without-you.html
Kahit ako ganun din ang mararamdaman ko pag malayo cya,parang di ako mapalagay pag walang contact kahit isang araw lang.Good that both of you talked 'bout it na^_^
Thaks for dropping sistah--nice to be back here uli^_^
Kaloka talaga tayong mg wify kasi masyado tayong nag iisip kahit few days lang na hindi magmemessage satin mga hubby natin.
Negative thinker ka pala Che pero it's always good na at the end of someting, my natutunan ka di ba?
Matotong pagpakumbaba.
Thanks for dropping mine... Happy CC
one of the key in making a relationship work is communication and most of us failed on that part haha lagi tayo assume ng assume hehe
wow! isn't that a little overboard.. but as you said, you are the wife and you have the right to know what's going on,lol!
:) wag agad tlga dpat mag conclude! hehehe