I am sick of these people blaming me for my father's condition saying I didn't take care of him and that I neglected him. What's worse is that mostly the people who blame are those outsiders.
What do they know about us, about my family and about me? How do they do know I am neglecting my father. Are they watching my every move? Are they monitoring me 24/7? Did they put a hidden camera in every place I am present that they know everything. Geezz!
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As what I have said to those people who blamed me just recently, my father' condition is due to his bad habits and age. He knows that. I, we never once neglected our father. We have given him the freedom and joy to be just at home instead of letting him work. He does what he wants to do. He drinks what he wants to drink. He eats what he wants to eat. We are giving him the freedom to enjoy life in his own way but of course, we are guiding him, sometimes scolding him when we need to.
After delivering my piece to those blaming outsiders, they only granted me their ignorant remarks that only showed how hard it was for them to just mind their own lives. We don't need the blame as it doesn't help. An advise or two, well wishes and heartfelt concerns; these are all we need.
Dont mind them. They dont have anything to do with you or with your family so dont let them get under your skin
geez...I hate people like that...so judgmental!
hahaha...grabi basin naa sila hidden cams around your house sis...wala lang ka kabalo...kolokoy jud ni uban tawo ba...lol!
oh my! i hate people like that too. this people surely don't have anything to do in life but ruin other peoples lives by creating negative and poisonous gossips. Ugh! Just ignore them and they'll stop when you don't pay attention to their criticism
these type of people just doesn't have anything to do to occupied themselves and to keep them busy, rather they just find faults to others in order to make themselves better. so with type of people, just better to just ignore them or else you just dealing with nothing.
Yea that's typical in today's world people keeps blaming in each other :(
So sad to know that people judge easily without knowing what's the real truth. Don't stress yourself out because you don't owe them any explanation if they are outsiders.
It is easy to blame others than admitting your faults. Those blamers probably doing the thing they've to you to thier own father. It is best to ignore them because no matter how many times to explain they still won't believe it. It's a mindset to find faults at others even if it is not true.
people will always have something to say. whatever we do, wherever we go they always have negative thoughts.
leave it sis... may mga ganyan talaga, walang magawa kundi ang mangialam. they don't deserve even a bit of your attention.