Hubby (Gary) and I had a break-up when we personally met the first time due to conflicts in the relationship. I mean, we met on Sept. 02, 06 and had a break up on Sept. 10, 06. It was my entire fault and I took the blame for what happened. He did a great job in giving the fault back to me for I was really hurt with what he did ten times than the pain I’ve caused him but I couldn’t blame him for doing so. The greatest fault I did I guess was when I didn’t or actually when I forgot to tell hubby about my very first online boyfriend that I haven't met yet who, at the time I considered ex because we didn't have communication for almost a year. My ex and I have been chatting for two years before I met Gary so i considered the "ex" as "ex". But mother of all bad luck, the ex called saying he wanted to meet me while I was in Boracay with Gary after almost a year of not hearing from him. I just couldn't believe how I/we was/were tested above because after my ex called, Gary's ex also called him. For me it was not a big deal but I didn’t think it was a big deal to Gary for not telling him about my ex but oh well, it was! That’s when conflicts and my pains started. He started corresponding to the calls and text messages of his 32 year-old ex-gf from Cebu behind my back having a purpose of hurting me I guess. Well, he succeeded. One day, I read a text massage from the ex-gf saying she will be in Boracay the next day. I was like “wow” what a big slap on my face. I am the gf here, am I not? I felt so stupid for being fooled. I was darn innocent at 19 and I felt I was played. And so we broke up.
It was a serious misunderstanding isn't it? It was before marriage. Now that we are husband and wife, there is no week that we don't have misunderstanding. Just little things but our pride can make those little things big. Mostly, the reasons of our misunderstanding are: (1.) our hot head, (2.) he doesn't help me with chores like washing the dishes, (3.) when i get too impatient or upset with little things and then i start opening my mouth, (4.) he opens his mouth back on me, (5.) we both have mouths of a parrot.
Ok, back to the first misunderstanding being a married couple. The first misunderstanding happened the night after our wedding celebration. We were on our way back to our apartment at that time to pack our things for our Palawan honeymoon when I asked him why he didn't answer my call when I called him at 4 am on our wedding day. He answered "ahmm baby, you know I am still sleeping during that time." It was a useless question, I know but I remember the deal we made before that when each of us call, we will answer the phone after the first ring. Remembering it made me more mouthy and then he got mad.
waaaaaa....hahahaha...kuyaw lagi tang mga babae ba kay babaon kaau...maka relate jud ko sa imo sis....demanding ra man jud pod ta usahay....ahahhaha...joke!
makamuot man ko sa imo woi..manawag man ug 4am....lol!
kami pod sis..wala jud week nga di me mag lalis...gamay lang man nuon...you know...slight remarks....pero usahay modako...waaaaa....hahaha..atimana bayot!....lol...
unsaon man mao naman jud ni life sa minyo...atubangon ta nalang ni...ehehhe!
agoy ipaghugas na ug plato sunod woi....ehhehe!
thanks for sharing sis....:) sleep nako..balik rako ugma kay kapoy ko ganina sa skul...mwah!
Hahaha, katawa ka, pareho kamo kayong may parrot mouth?? Aba, eh di ba madaldal ang parrot?? Hehehe.. Yeah, nabasa ko nga ang first misunderstanding nyo na nag lead sa inyong break up..Tsk! but come to think of it, yo got back together and led you to get married. Bakit naman tinawagan mo ng 4am, eh kahit si Rodney di yun sasagot..hehehe.
Naku, normal na ang argument or misunderstanding sa buhay may asawa. kaya dapat eh kapag you open your mouth, he shuts his di ba? otherwise, blah blah blah ang mangyayari, hehehe.Pati pag hugas ng pinggan eh pinagtatalunan nyo? bwahahahaha...hay katuwa kapag mga bata pa ang couple, kami kasi matanda na, kaya nakakaasar, bihira na ang misunderstanding.
Well as you grow older, these things won't matter and you'll get along better.
I am thankful that hubby is like me who don't like arguing about anything.
Thanks for peeking on my entry..
siguro ako baka maging ganun dn ang reaction ko sau. pero at least naayos nman at naging ok kau.. btw halos same year pala na nameet natin ang mga habibi natin. 2006 ko rin nameet si habibi. mga buhay may asawa talaga hano..
heres my version >> http://mydigihome.info/?p=271
hahahhaaa!!Pareho pala kayo ng hubby mo na masyadong mabunganga lol!!Kaya pala walang araw na wala kayong misunderstanding even those lil things na pwede nyong pag-awayan.I guess pagdating ng panahon as you both grow older(lol)mababawasan rin ng konti ang away nyo.^_^
Ganyan yata mag-asawa...never-ending na ayaw bati! hahahaha part of life na natin yan :)
hehehe natawa ako sa mga parrot sa amin ako lang ang parrot eh wahhh mine is up its here http://www.terryannemary.com/2009/11/couples-corner-misunderstanding.html
hahahaha parot mouth diay tawag ana..abi nako machine gun mouth, mura ako mouth. mura bug-at imo LQ dah pero at least na solve din and very sweet pa karon...hehe
Just remember communication3x is a must ^_^
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