I implied about the reason why I changed my blog header last night. The reason was getting bored being awake alone the whole night which was the cause of the main reason, the fight that my husband and I had earlier that night. It didn’t make me sleep. I am not really used of sleeping with a heavy heart. Thinking about mom left home even gives me sleepless nights and the fight last night added the load to my heavy heart. I know my husband can’t sleep with a heavy heart too that’s why we don’t go to bed without fixing our problems but not last night. Lying on our bed alone, I tried closing my eyes trying to catch sleep but I didn’t. So I just stayed up until sunshine.
The reason of our fight actually was very shallow. The reason was because of me not supporting my husband giving the rudeness back to our rude neighbor. This is what happened: A day before yesterday, hubby got up early to cut the grass in our little garden when suddenly two maids from the next unit approached hubby saying their employer wants us to take our plants down from the 5” tall wall that separates our garage to theirs because according to their employer, the plants make their wall dirty.
It was when the fight between me and my husband started. Both of us then started yelling and throwing bad words at each other. My husband, due to madness didn’t able to stop himself from throwing nasty and unacceptable American words on me that really made me mad. At that moment I was mad with my husband and the people next door. I went outside the house when I heard the rude neighbors coming home and took the pots down from that wall and throw and broke it all down on our garage. I let them see me did it and whatever their reactions and their thoughts at moment was something I care so much. I want them to think that this small Rechie Ruth can be as a$$ as they are. Right then and there I told my self that my husband's wish came true. I supported his rudeness and I was giving those neighbors back their rudeness back. I couldn’t believe that those pots and those rude people next door could be the bottom line of our fight.
Hubby and I didn't talk after that. We both went upstairs and conquered a room. I locked myself up with our room of course; it is where our computers are at. He didn't bother to knock me on my door; he knows I am not going to open it after the words he had said.
Well, hubby and I are ok now. He asked apology with what he did that night first thing yesterday morning. I accepted it of course because I do understand him. That night was one of his hot-blooded moments. Also, beware having rude creatures living next to you guys. Have a great day!
aw, noh kaboang pod diay ana inyong neighbor sis oi.. mao diay.. heheh.. maau gani ky okz na mo.. hugs for the braveness sistah! muahhh!
that's good that you have resolved it. hope your hubby controls himself next time esp saying bad words to you. and well, as for your neighbors, that's so terrible of them! just keep showing kindness to them in that way you heap burning coals on their heads. hopefully they will change for the better.
Masaya na rin ako na ok na kayo. Ang hirap nga talaga matulog na magkagalit... lalo't hindi naman natin style ang ganun.
Forget and forgive na lang. :)
Have a nice day, Chie.
Grabe naman yang chinese na yan sis, lagyan mo kaya ebak sa may garage nila hahaha.. joke, pinapatawa lang kita. Sayang yung plants wawa naman.
Wow! This is unreal, and some people really know how to add to the problems of others. That said, I can understand where you both were coming from, and glad it is okay now. I hope it will remain that way my dear friend.
oh my gosh...I can't stand nieghbors like that....agoy mag bukal jud akong dugo...bukal man gani akong dugo while reading your post sis....unsa pa kaha....I think hubby will get mad too....those are just rude people...my gosh.....:)
what matter the most sis is amigo namo ni hubby nimo....woi, namuot ko sa imong comment kay....ehem...you know na....hehehhe....joke!
love to know happy naka...wala naka nag-mog ot diha....:)
it's good to know that you and your hubby are now ok
good thing you are back into each other's arms. dont let rude neighbors break ur peaceful marriage..
love thy neighbors but when they are getting rude think twice!
:)
have a nice day!
i know, some chinese people can be very rude sometimes..
in hongkong, some of them people esp. pinays out of their store kapag di bumili.. they can even spit on your face.. bastos talaga kung bastos!
sorry sa mga mababait na chinese pero totoo yun kasi minsan na'kong pinalayas sa isang store while in wan chai.. just checking some jeans.. eh, namahalan ako, so di ko binili! sukat ba naman na palabasin nya'ko ng sapilitan.. napamura ako non sa sarili ko pero dahil sa matanda sya, hinayaan ko nalang.. kung dito siguro sa pinas yun, binigwasan ko sya.. haha!
anyway, thanks God at bati na kayo ng hubby mo..^^
Sis, i am glad na finally u and ur hubby is ok now. I read through out your posting and it's really normal i guess for couples, sometimes it's getting to the point na mapuno na pareho.
Cheer up sis chie... everything is fine now..but still hoping about sa mom problem mo.
Hi sistah! glad at nagkaayos na kayo ni hubby...
nako hirap pag may ganyang di kaaya ayang neighbors...
I sure know what you mean.
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hay naku Chie...lisod baya isilingan ang intsik....basig kanang mag luto nga naay dili nila magustuha nga amoy..reklamo sad na sila pero sila gani mag sinagbut, nah masuko pod na badlungon...sabta na lang si hubby kay gisapot na sa inyo silingan ug intsik pod ug utok..
Awww that rude neighbors of yours!!gggrrrr!!Hindi marunong makisama!!Dyosme!Sana pinakain mo na lang sa kanila yung pots na yun noh!!ggrrr!!Na-highblood tuloy ako after reading your story!!But I'm glad that everything's fine between you and your husband.
hmmm mao d i niing reason why la ka tulog che noh . kw jud ... relax lng ako mn gisayanagan sa mga flowers nimu oi ..
stay inlove che and stay cool.....